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Delaware County, PA Probate Information
Quick facts
| Category | Current rules |
|---|---|
| Where probate begins | The Delaware County Register of Wills, at the Government Center in Media: this is where the original will is filed, the Petition for Grant of Letters is presented, letters testamentary or of administration are issued, and the Pennsylvania inheritance-tax return (REV-1500) is filed |
| Who supervises administration | The Delaware County Orphans' Court Division of the Court of Common Pleas (32nd Judicial District), which handles inventories, accounts, distributions, guardianships, and disputes. In Delaware County the Register of Wills also serves as the Clerk of the Orphans' Court Division, so the filing office is the same combined office |
| Filing office | Register of Wills and Clerk of Orphans' Court Division, Delaware County Government Center, 201 West Front Street, Media, PA 19063 |
| Phone | Main (610) 891-4400; Probate (610) 891-4419; General information and inheritance tax (610) 891-4110; Orphans' Court (610) 891-5408 |
| Fax | (610) 891-4812 |
| [email protected]; Orphans' Court [email protected]; virtual probate scheduling [email protected] | |
| Hours | Monday to Friday, 8:30 a.m. to 4:00 p.m. Closed weekends and county holidays; confirm any filing cutoff before a trip to Media |
| Filing fee | Register of Wills probate fees are set by Delaware County and graduated by the value of the probate assets, starting at $23.00 for assets not exceeding $250 and rising with estate value up to $900.00 for assets of $900,001 to $1,000,000, then $125.00 for each additional $100,000. On every new probate the county schedule also adds, itemized separately, a $20.00 inheritance-tax return fee, a $20.00 inventory filing fee, a $41.25 JCS surcharge, and a $15.75 Register of Wills automation fee (42 P.S. § 21022.1). Short certificates are $10.00 each. See the fees section below and confirm the current schedule with the Register of Wills (Delaware County Register of Wills fee schedule, effective December 1, 2025, verified July 2026) |
| Local forms | Pennsylvania uses one statewide Register of Wills and Orphans' Court form set (published on pacourts.us), including Form RW-02 (Petition for Grant of Letters) and the Inventory (Form RW-09). Delaware County also posts its own Estate Information Sheet and an Online Pre-Entry for Probate form on delcopa.gov/row. The small-estate petition (20 Pa.C.S. § 3102) is a county petition filed with the Orphans' Court division; obtain it from the office |
| E-filing | Delaware County offers Orphans' Court e-filing for the Notice of Estate Administration (Pa. O.C. Rule 10.5) and the Rule 10.6 Status Report through the county's online system. The grant of letters is handled by a 30-minute probate appointment, in person or virtually: for a virtual appointment, email your materials as PDF attachments in one message to [email protected]; for an in-person appointment, call the office at (610) 891-4400. Confirm the current options with the office |
| Case search | The county offers a free online search of probated estates at delcopa.gov/row (log in as guest, no account required), searching case names but not document images; a public-access kiosk is also available in the office. The statewide UJS Portal at ujsportal.pacourts.us/CaseSearch is the general court case search, with estate-record coverage that varies by county |
| Remote appearance | The Register offers virtual probate appointments to grant letters; hearing formats before the Orphans' Court Division are set by the court, so confirm any remote option before a scheduled date |
| Website | https://www.delcopa.gov/row |
Before you begin — know the assets and liabilities
The first Delaware County question is which path fits the estate, and then how you open it. Pennsylvania probate begins at the Register of Wills, where the will is admitted and letters are granted; the Orphans' Court Division then supervises the administration. A qualifying small estate can instead be settled on a petition to the Orphans' Court division (20 Pa.C.S. § 3102), and some assets pass without any grant of letters at all (20 Pa.C.S. § 3101). The statewide thresholds and paths are covered on the Pennsylvania state page. A jointly owned home held by spouses, or a beneficiary-designated account, often passes outside the estate, so the estate that actually goes through probate can be smaller than the family expects.
Before you schedule a probate appointment, identify every bank, credit-union, brokerage, and retirement account, life-insurance policy, business interest, and parcel of Delaware County real estate, along with every debt, and identify each heir by name. Only then can you pick the right path, calculate the correct county filing fee, and decide whether counsel is needed. Sunset's asset-discovery work, searching more than 2,300 financial institutions, exists for this step.
Which court handles jurisdiction
The Delaware County Register of Wills and Clerk of Orphans' Court Division serves all of Delaware County, one of the most densely populated counties in Pennsylvania. The county takes in 49 municipalities, including Media, the county seat, the City of Chester, and Upper Darby, Haverford, Radnor, Springfield, Ridley, Marple, Nether Providence, Middletown, Concord, Aston, Newtown, Swarthmore, Lansdowne, Yeadon, Darby, Glenolden, Ridley Park, and the county's many other boroughs and townships. Under Pennsylvania's venue rule in Title 20 of the Pennsylvania Consolidated Statutes (20 Pa.C.S.), letters are granted only by the register of the county where the decedent had a last family or principal residence (20 Pa.C.S. § 3151). A decedent who lived anywhere in Delaware County has the estate opened here, regardless of which municipality within the county the person lived in.
Delaware County is the 32nd Judicial District, a single-county district, so the Orphans' Court judge is a Court of Common Pleas judge of that district. The combined Register of Wills and Clerk of Orphans' Court Division office sits in the Delaware County Government Center at 201 West Front Street in Media, and it is the filing office for both the grant of letters and the later administration filings. If the decedent was not domiciled in Pennsylvania but left property in the county, the register of the county where the property is located may grant letters (20 Pa.C.S. § 3151), which is the basis for an ancillary administration.
The jurisdiction process
- Confirm venue. Delaware County is the right county when the decedent had a last family or principal residence here at death (20 Pa.C.S. § 3151). The estate is opened with the Delaware County Register of Wills regardless of which of the county's 49 municipalities the person lived in.
- Choose the path and the form. With a will, the named executor presents the original will and Form RW-02 (Petition for Grant of Letters) and the Register issues letters testamentary; with no will, an eligible person petitions on Form RW-02 and the Register issues letters of administration in the priority order set by 20 Pa.C.S. § 3155. A qualifying small estate can instead be settled on a petition to the Orphans' Court division (20 Pa.C.S. § 3102). The statewide paths and thresholds are on the Pennsylvania state page.
- Gather what the Register needs and pre-enter online. Collect the original will (if any), a certified death certificate, an estimate of the estate's assets and debts, and the names and addresses of the heirs. Complete the county's Online Pre-Entry for Probate form to speed the appointment; for a will without a self-proving acknowledgment, an oath of a subscribing or non-subscribing witness is used to prove the signature.
- Schedule and attend the probate appointment. Delaware County grants letters through a 30-minute appointment with the Register of Wills at the Delaware County Government Center, 201 West Front Street, Media. For an in-person appointment, call the office at (610) 891-4400; for a virtual appointment, email your materials as PDF attachments in one message to [email protected] so a team member can review and schedule it.
- Pay the county filing fee. Delaware's base probate fee is graduated by the value of the probate assets, from $23.00 for assets not exceeding $250 up to $900.00 for assets of $900,001 to $1,000,000, then $125.00 for each additional $100,000. On every new probate the county schedule also adds, itemized separately, a $20.00 inheritance-tax return fee, a $20.00 inventory filing fee, a $41.25 JCS surcharge, and a $15.75 Register of Wills automation fee (42 P.S. § 21022.1). Payment is by check, money order, or credit card (a convenience fee applies). Request short certificates, the certified proof of your authority that banks rely on, at $10.00 each (Delaware County Register of Wills fee schedule, effective December 1, 2025, verified July 2026).
- Advertise the grant of letters. Immediately after letters are granted, advertise the grant once a week for three successive weeks in a newspaper of general circulation near the decedent's residence and in the Delaware County Legal Journal, the county legal periodical published by the Delaware County Bar Association, requesting that creditors present claims (20 Pa.C.S. § 3162). Creditors generally have one year from the first complete advertisement to present claims (20 Pa.C.S. § 3532).
- File the Pennsylvania inheritance-tax return. File the REV-1500 (resident decedent) in duplicate with the Delaware County Register of Wills, which acts as agent for the Pennsylvania Department of Revenue; a locked dropbox outside the office is available, and payment is by check or money order made to Register of Wills, Agent. Pennsylvania inheritance tax is keyed to the beneficiary's relationship to the decedent, becomes delinquent nine months after death, and a 5% discount is allowed on tax paid within three months of death. The rate detail is on the Pennsylvania state page.
- File the inventory. File a verified inventory of the estate's real and personal property with the Register on the Inventory form (Form RW-09), due no later than the earlier of the account filing or the inheritance-tax return due date (20 Pa.C.S. § 3301); an interested party may demand it sooner.
- Administer and close. Collect the assets, pay valid claims and taxes, and account to the interested parties. The Rule 10.5 Notice of Estate Administration and its certification, and the Rule 10.6 Status Report, can be e-filed with the Orphans' Court through the county's online system; accounts and any contested matter are filed with the Clerk of the Orphans' Court Division. A personal representative who distributes is protected from a claim not made known within one year after the first complete advertisement of the grant of letters (20 Pa.C.S. § 3532).
Forms and documents
Probate forms in Delaware County
Pennsylvania uses one statewide Register of Wills and Orphans' Court form set, and Delaware County files the same set as every other county. The load-bearing filings are Form RW-02, the Petition for Grant of Letters, used with or without a will; the Renunciation (Form RW-06), where a person with priority declines to serve; and the Inventory (Form RW-09). The Rule 10.5 Notice of Estate Administration and its certification, and the Rule 10.6 Status Report, follow the estate opening. The Orphans' Court account and distribution filings use the statewide OC-series forms. These are published centrally on the Unified Judicial System forms hub at pacourts.us/forms/for-the-public/orphans-court-forms.
Delaware County also posts several items on its own site at delcopa.gov/row that help families assemble a filing: an Estate Information Sheet, an Online Pre-Entry for Probate form, the oath-of-witness affidavits, and a probate appointment information guide with a checklist. The small-estate petition is different: settlement of a small estate under 20 Pa.C.S. § 3102 uses a county petition filed with the Orphans' Court division, not a numbered statewide RW form, so contact the Register of Wills office for that form. Completed probate documents are presented at the 30-minute probate appointment, in person at the Government Center in Media or virtually by email to [email protected].
Fees
Pennsylvania sets probate filing fees per county, and Delaware County publishes its own Register of Wills fee schedule (effective December 1, 2025), with the base probate fee graduated by the value of the probate assets. Unlike some counties that fold the statewide surcharges into a single figure, Delaware's schedule itemizes them: on every new probate it adds a $20.00 inheritance-tax return fee, a $20.00 inventory filing fee, a JCS surcharge, and a Register of Wills automation fee, on top of the graduated base fee (42 P.S. § 21022.1). The JCS surcharge rose to $41.25 in December 2025 under a state law. Payment is by check, money order, or credit card (a convenience fee applies). Confirm the current schedule before you file; each figure below carries its source.
| Item | Amount | Notes |
|---|---|---|
| Base probate fee, assets not exceeding $250 | $23.00 | The minimum base fee for granting letters; the fee rises in steps with the value of the probate assets (Delaware County Register of Wills fee schedule, effective December 1, 2025, verified July 2026) |
| Base probate fee, assets over $25,000 to $50,000 | $165.00 | An example mid-range tier for granting letters (Delaware County Register of Wills fee schedule, effective December 1, 2025, verified July 2026) |
| Base probate fee, assets over $900,000 to $1,000,000 | $900.00 | The top published tier, then $125.00 for each additional $100,000 or fraction (Delaware County Register of Wills fee schedule, effective December 1, 2025, verified July 2026) |
| Mandatory add-ons on every new probate | $97.00 total | Charged separately on top of the base fee: $20.00 inheritance-tax return fee, $20.00 inventory filing fee, $41.25 JCS surcharge (raised from $40.25 in December 2025), and $15.75 Register of Wills automation fee (Delaware County Register of Wills fee schedule, effective December 1, 2025, verified July 2026 and the office's ROW home-page update dated December 2, 2025) |
| Short certificate (certified proof of the letters) | $10.00 new, $8.00 to update | The certified proof of the personal representative's authority that banks and transfer agents rely on (Delaware County Register of Wills fee schedule, effective December 1, 2025, verified July 2026) |
| No-letter inheritance-tax filing | $112.00 | For filing an inheritance-tax return where no grant of letters is sought; check or money order only, made to Register of Wills (delcopa.gov/row inheritance-tax page, verified July 2026) |
| Certified copy | $20.00 plus $1.00 per page | Plain copies are $1.00 per page; a name search is $25.00 per name (Delaware County Register of Wills fee schedule, effective December 1, 2025, verified July 2026) |
Local nuance
Delaware County-specific considerations
One combined office runs both functions. In Delaware County the elected Register of Wills also serves as the Clerk of the Orphans' Court Division, so a single combined Register of Wills and Clerk of Orphans' Court Division office at the Government Center, 201 West Front Street, Media, handles both the grant of letters and the later estate filings. Because officials are elected and change, this page refers to the office rather than the officeholder.
Letters are granted by a 30-minute appointment. Delaware County does not open probate by a simple counter filing. It grants letters through a 30-minute appointment with the Register of Wills, offered in person or virtually. For a virtual appointment, review the county's probate appointment guide and email your materials as PDF attachments in one message to [email protected]; for an in-person appointment, call the office at (610) 891-4400 and do not send materials in advance. Completing the Online Pre-Entry for Probate form beforehand speeds the appointment.
Orphans' Court e-filing covers the estate notices. The county offers Orphans' Court e-filing for the Notice of Estate Administration under Pa. O.C. Rule 10.5, its certification, and the Rule 10.6 Status Report through its online system. This is separate from the grant of letters, which is handled by the probate appointment, so plan to open the estate by appointment and e-file the later notices.
The county publishes a free online records search. Delaware County offers a free online search of probated estates at delcopa.gov/row, using a guest login with no account required; it searches case names but does not show document images. A public-access kiosk is available in the office, and copies are ordered through the county's e-commerce store. This is separate from the statewide UJS Portal case search.
The office is the inheritance-tax agent, not an advisor. The Register of Wills accepts the REV-1500 inheritance-tax return as agent for the Pennsylvania Department of Revenue and transmits it, but the office does not calculate the tax, advise on the return, or issue refunds. Submit the REV-1500 in duplicate, by mail, in the locked dropbox outside the office, or in person, with payment by check or money order made to Register of Wills, Agent.
Recent updates
| Date | Change |
|---|---|
| December 1, 2025 | A new Delaware County Register of Wills fee schedule took effect, replacing the November 3, 2023 schedule; the graduated base probate fees are unchanged, the JCS surcharge prints at $41.25, and the no-letter inheritance-tax filing fee is $112.00 (source: the fee schedule posted at delcopa.gov/row, verified July 2026). |
| December 2, 2025 | The JCS surcharge collected by the Delaware County Register of Wills on new probates increased from $40.25 to $41.25 under a recent state law (source: delcopa.gov/row home-page update, verified July 2026). |
Page last reviewed: July 2026.
Scenarios
| Situation | Likely path in Delaware County | Where Sunset helps |
|---|---|---|
| Surviving spouse, co-owned home | A Media-area home held by the spouses as tenants by the entirety, or jointly with right of survivorship, generally passes to the surviving spouse outside the estate; the survivor clears title with the county. Accounts and property in the decedent's sole name may still need a grant of letters, opened by a probate appointment with the Delaware County Register of Wills on Form RW-02, with letters testamentary if there is a will or letters of administration if there is not. | Asset discovery to separate survivorship property from sole-name assets. Packet generation for the Form RW-02 petition and the supporting documents. A vetted Delaware County probate attorney if the estate is contested or complex. |
| Out-of-state adult child, small estate | If the parent lived in Delaware County and left a qualifying small estate, the child can settle it on a petition to the Orphans' Court division (20 Pa.C.S. § 3102) rather than a full grant of letters; some assets can pass without any letters at all (20 Pa.C.S. § 3101). A larger estate is opened with the Register of Wills on Form RW-02. The county's virtual probate appointment, by email to [email protected], lets an out-of-state child open the estate without traveling to Media. | Asset discovery to confirm the estate fits the small-estate path and holds no complicating real property. Packet generation for the small-estate petition or the Form RW-02 grant of letters. Attorney referral if the estate turns out to be larger or contested. |
| Parent settling a predeceased child's estate, home must be sold | A grant of letters at the Delaware County Register of Wills. Because there is no will, the parent petitions for letters of administration (Form RW-02), with priority set by 20 Pa.C.S. § 3155, then advertises the grant (20 Pa.C.S. § 3162), files the inventory (Form RW-09), and settles the Pennsylvania inheritance tax. The administrator obtains the authority to sell the child's Delaware County real estate; a contested step is heard by the Orphans' Court Division. | Asset discovery for the child's accounts and property. Packet generation for the administration petition, the inventory, and the sale papers. A vetted Delaware County probate attorney to run the administration and any contested step. |
Self-help resources
| Resource | What it offers |
|---|---|
| Delaware County Register of Wills and Clerk of Orphans' Court Division (delcopa.gov/row) | The combined office pages: address, hours, the probate fee schedule, the probate appointment guide and forms, the Online Pre-Entry for Probate, the free online records search, and the inheritance-tax page |
| Delaware County Orphans' Court (delcopa.gov/row, Orphans' Court section) | The Orphans' Court Division's audits and accounts, guardianships, local rules, notices, forms, and the Orphans' Court e-filing for the Rule 10.5 and 10.6 estate notices |
| Unified Judicial System forms and self-help (pacourts.us/forms/for-the-public/orphans-court-forms and pacourts.us/learn) | The statewide Register of Wills and Orphans' Court forms, including Form RW-02 and Form RW-09, and plain-language help with representing yourself |
| UJS Portal case search (ujsportal.pacourts.us/CaseSearch) | The statewide court case search; Register of Wills and Orphans' Court estate-record coverage varies by county |
| Pennsylvania Department of Revenue, Inheritance Tax (pa.gov/agencies/revenue) | The inheritance-tax rates, the REV-1500 return, the nine-month deadline, and the three-month early-payment discount |
| Legal Aid of Southeastern Pennsylvania (lasp.org, helpline (877) 429-5994) | Free civil legal help for income-eligible residents of Delaware, Bucks, Chester, and Montgomery counties, including elder-law matters; the Delaware County office is at 419 Avenue of the States, Suite 605, in Chester |
| Delaware County Bar Association Lawyer Referral Service (delcobar.org, (610) 566-6625) | Referral to a qualified Delaware County attorney, with a $25 fee for a 30-minute initial consultation |
| PALawHELP (palawhelp.org) | Plain-language legal information and legal-aid routing statewide |
When to hire an attorney
Pennsylvania does not require an attorney to open a probate estate, and many uncontested Delaware County estates are handled with the statewide forms and a probate appointment with the Register of Wills. Counsel makes sense when a will is contested or an appeal is taken from the Register to the Orphans' Court Division; when the estate is large, taxable, or holds a business interest or out-of-state property; when Delaware County real estate must be sold and the terms are disputed; when the heirs are unknown or in conflict; or when a formal accounting or a dispute over the personal representative is filed. The office acts as the inheritance-tax agent but cannot advise on the tax or the forms, so a taxable estate often benefits from counsel or an accountant. Sunset can connect families to a vetted Delaware County probate attorney when the situation calls for counsel.
How Sunset helps
Find the accounts and assets. Sunset searches more than 2,300 financial institutions and public records to identify bank and credit-union accounts, retirement plans, brokerage holdings, life insurance, Delaware County real estate, business interests, and unclaimed property, so you know the estate's value for estate settlement and can choose the right Pennsylvania path before you file.
Generate the probate packet. Sunset prepares the Delaware County filing: the Petition for Grant of Letters (Form RW-02), the inventory (Form RW-09), and the supporting documents from Pennsylvania's statewide set, or the small-estate petition where the estate qualifies, ready to present at your in-person or virtual probate appointment.
Find a local probate attorney. When an estate is contested, taxable, or otherwise calls for counsel, Sunset connects families to a vetted Delaware County probate attorney to file and appear.
Sunset is free for families. Revenue comes from bank partners that pay Sunset while estate funds sit in an FDIC-insured estate account ($3M coverage).
Frequently asked questions
Where do I file probate in Delaware County, Pennsylvania?
With the Delaware County Register of Wills and Clerk of Orphans' Court Division, at the Delaware County Government Center, 201 West Front Street, Media, PA 19063, main line (610) 891-4400, probate line (610) 891-4419. That is where the original will is filed, the Petition for Grant of Letters (Form RW-02) is presented, and letters are issued. In Delaware County the Register of Wills also serves as the Clerk of the Orphans' Court Division, so the same office supervises the administration that follows.
Do I have to appear in person to open probate in Delaware County?
Not necessarily. Delaware County grants letters through a 30-minute probate appointment that can be in person or virtual. For a virtual appointment, review the county's probate appointment guide and email your materials as PDF attachments in one message to [email protected]; for an in-person appointment, call the office at (610) 891-4400 and do not send materials in advance. The virtual option lets an out-of-state personal representative open the estate without traveling to Media.
Can I e-file a probate in Delaware County?
In part. The county offers Orphans' Court e-filing for the Notice of Estate Administration under Pa. O.C. Rule 10.5, its certification, and the Rule 10.6 Status Report through its online system. The grant of letters itself is handled by the probate appointment, not by e-filing, so plan to open the estate by appointment and e-file those later notices. Completing the Online Pre-Entry for Probate form ahead of time speeds the appointment.
How much does it cost to open a probate estate in Delaware County?
Delaware's Register of Wills base probate fee is set by the county and graduated by the value of the probate assets, from $23.00 for assets not exceeding $250 up to $900.00 for assets of $900,001 to $1,000,000, then $125.00 for each additional $100,000. On every new probate the county schedule also adds, itemized separately, a $20.00 inheritance-tax return fee, a $20.00 inventory filing fee, a $41.25 JCS surcharge, and a $15.75 Register of Wills automation fee (42 P.S. § 21022.1). Short certificates are $10.00 each, and payment is by check, money order, or credit card with a convenience fee (Delaware County Register of Wills fee schedule, effective December 1, 2025, verified July 2026).
What are the Delaware County Register of Wills hours?
The Register of Wills and Clerk of Orphans' Court Division office is open Monday to Friday, 8:30 a.m. to 4:00 p.m., and is closed on weekends and county holidays. The office can be reached at (610) 891-4400, by fax at (610) 891-4812, and by email at [email protected]; confirm any filing cutoff before making a trip to Media.
How do I look up a Delaware County estate or probate record?
Delaware County offers a free online search of probated estates at delcopa.gov/row: log in as guest with no account, choose the public records and case-name search, and look up the estate. It searches case names but does not show document images, which can be ordered through the county's e-commerce store, and a public-access kiosk is available in the office. The statewide UJS Portal at ujsportal.pacourts.us/CaseSearch is the general court case search, with estate-record coverage that varies by county.
What forms do I use for a Delaware County estate?
Pennsylvania's statewide Register of Wills and Orphans' Court forms, the same set used in every county. The core filings are Form RW-02 (Petition for Grant of Letters) and Form RW-09 (Inventory), published on pacourts.us/forms/for-the-public/orphans-court-forms. Delaware County also posts its own Estate Information Sheet and an Online Pre-Entry for Probate form on delcopa.gov/row. The small-estate petition (20 Pa.C.S. § 3102) is a county petition filed with the Orphans' Court division; contact the Register of Wills office for that form.
Does Delaware County charge inheritance tax, and where do I file the return?
Pennsylvania has a state inheritance tax keyed to the beneficiary's relationship to the decedent, and it applies to Delaware County estates. The REV-1500 resident return is filed in duplicate with the Delaware County Register of Wills, which acts as agent for the Pennsylvania Department of Revenue; a locked dropbox outside the office is available, and payment is by check or money order made to Register of Wills, Agent. The office cannot calculate the tax or advise on the form. The tax becomes delinquent nine months after death, with a 5% discount for tax paid within three months; the rate detail is on the Pennsylvania state page.
How do I handle a small estate in Delaware County?
A qualifying small estate can be settled on a petition to the Orphans' Court division under 20 Pa.C.S. § 3102 rather than a full grant of letters, and some assets can be released without any letters at all under 20 Pa.C.S. § 3101. The small-estate petition is a county form, so contact the Delaware County Register of Wills office for it; the statewide thresholds are covered on the Pennsylvania state page.
Where do I advertise the grant of letters in Delaware County?
After letters are granted, advertise the grant once a week for three successive weeks in a newspaper of general circulation near the decedent's residence and in the Delaware County Legal Journal, the county legal periodical published by the Delaware County Bar Association in Media, so that creditors can present claims (20 Pa.C.S. § 3162). Creditors generally have one year from the first complete advertisement to present claims (20 Pa.C.S. § 3532).
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